This Sunday

The church that my husband and I go to just celebrated their 70 anniversary of it foundation. The church is also explanding. There was a little ground breaking and food and fellowship. That was wonderful. But what was really marvelous was the sermon. The sermon was given by a former paster by the name of Al Janney.

I have never felt so much spirt in a sermon in my life. I was honest to God touched and it made me glad I was in that room and a Christian. I don't know if it was him, his words or his sermon style but it gave me a feeling like I'm not doing enough for my church. That I'm not doing enough to get the word out about my God and Jesus.

What is so funny is that anyone who has known me from before I met Daniel you'd know how much of a 180 that is for me. I read the Bible and belived in God but that was it. I didn't attend church and never really gave much thought on some of my actions. Now I feel like I found God and Christ.

Here's the link

The start is kinda interesting but it ends good.

Teaser Gig Log

Last night, Daniel, James Tucker and I did a prom for a local private school. We'd worked with one of the schools administrators in the past for a personal party for her and she liked us so much that she wanted us for their prom. It was held a local country with some if the nicest servers I've ever worked with. The kids were amazing and it was a good time. I wore the wrong shoes and seeing as I never sit down in front of the clients even at there request it was a long night. My husband who I'm so proud of did most of the heavy lifting and I did what I could to contribute to him as a DJ. Here are some shots from last night, with more to come from Daniel's gig log.



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When the Bachelor should stay a Bachelor.

I'm not a fan of TV and for the most part I avoid it like a plague. This show is one of the reason's why. This only points out all the things wrong with America.

1) American's are watching people's lives....for ENTERTAINMENT. When did another human being become a walking zoo? I don't understand why anyone would want to watch a show about someone else finding love, losing love or anything in between. Live you own life, trust me it's much better.

2) Men- This particular show only reinforces the idea that men are b*stards. They can't think for themselves, are immature, hurtful, selfish, dumb and cheaters. Jason from my understanding could have chosen not to ask Melissa to marry him. In past shows a man even chose not to pick anyone at all. Knowing that he picked Melissa and then asked her to marry him, took her home to his family( and son) and then after the holidays started talking to the one he orignally rejected. Not telling Melissa that he was falling for Molly moved the show up to blindside her for ratings. Then started making out with reject 1 after reject 2 left. How is this sending a postive message to young men? Is this teaching the Bachelor's of tomorrow respect, commitment and caring? Also is this teaching young women of tomorrow what to expect from men? Which leads me too......

3) Women- How empowering is it to watch a bunch of women fight over a man that wasn't good enough to find a wife on his own? How silly and catish does this portray women. Furthermore how smart does this make us seem when we fall in love, some times have sex with a man who is wooing 24 other women? This reinforces the idea that women aren't worth a much as men? That as a woman you should throw yourself a man to somehow show him how much your worth. If your worth anything you don't have to go on TV to show it. This does not lay the ground work for the women of tomorrow to be confident, independent and knowing their self worth.

I know people will make the remark that it's just TV. It's worthless entertainment. Maybe it's not. Maybe it's how women, men and the American way of life will be remembered years down the road.



The first 1:45 points out what I mean.

Things I wished I knew when I was single...

I was watching Oprah (cause that's what women do right?) and she had Steve Harvey on the show talking about his new book. In it he talks about mostly about single women and dating. So now that I'm married I wanted to say things that I wished I knew while being single.

1) You will really know. It will just hit you. It's not gonna be in a big ta-da moment. It will be in a quiet moment and your inner voice will tell you this works and your happy.

2) You deserve better. If your not with the person that makes you want to be a better version of yourself, then they aren't the one. If your with someone who makes you feel like less than you are then they aren't the one for you either.

3) Being married makes things in the bedroom MUCH better. When your young you may or may not have sex before your married. If you do you will think it's good, but after your married you will KNOW it's good. There is something to be said about being open and one with your other half that will make the special time together out of this world.

4) Men are simple. They say what they mean. If he's not making sure you KNOW that he's into you than he's not into you. Men are very much like hunters. If they found a field that was full of game, they would make sure everyone knew that that field was his. This is the same with women. If he wants you he'll make sure you know it, that his friends know it and that other men know it. He does not want you to get away.

5) Do NOT settle. The road may be long. It doesn't matter how long it takes to find someone. They are out there just be open.

6)I'm going to steal this one from a movie. "Every woman has the exact relationship she wants." If you want a better relationship you have the power to try to make it better or leave. By staying then you have the relationship you want. You control your life it doesn't just happen to you. Relationships are the same way.

I'm done....I don't know who I was writing this too or for but I'm glad it's written.

Ways I show my husband I love him.

So seeing as I'm now June Cleever. I made cookies for Daniel to take to work for his co-workers for St. Valentines Day. I also got him a book. Daniel loves to read and he's really smart so I got him John Grisham book The Last Juror. Not really a romantic gift but a gift from the heart.